People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them., you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain.
BİRTAKIM YAZILAR 
pain could be your motivations in life.. From pain you gain strength and courage.. but on the negative side.. it can also make someone act evil.. theres always a cause and effect relationship. and theres mostly 2 side of effects. (the good/beneficial and the bad/harmful/self-harm)
in every pain. we just have to pray and ask guidance from our God. that despite of the pain we will still walk through the good path and he will guide us all the way. . we should first do it for our self so we can share it with others that will serve our testimony.. we have freedom to express our pain. it doesnt make us weak.. it makes us strong. we face it , we handle it and we overcome it.
Yeah, I agree with you. Being faithful is very important in this process.